So, my ex-boyfriend sent me a text message last week.It was one of those "Hey, thinking about you, just want to say Hi, how are you? Not wanting to sound bitter or unhappy, I gave him a three-word reply.Well you will be happy to know that I have been dating and self-improving like its my job ;).
This irresistible game plan is virtually guaranteed to soften your ex-boyfriend's (or ex-husband's) heart and create a deeper bond between the two of you that paves the way to re-establishing your relationship.
I'll even reveal to you my word-for-word script -- 9 incredibly powerful words you can say to your man that will make him realize he simply couldn't bear to lose you!
"Maybe he has intimacy issues." "Maybe he's met someone else." Then, you might even consult with your friends, and together, you speculate about why he suddenly seems indifferent and distant. or you just want to prevent it from happening to you in the future -- this may be the most important article you'll ever read!
You might even devise all kinds of ways to put yourself in his path or to get him to call you -- but nothing works. do you go on hopelessly wishing he'll come back to you, while feeling hurt and broken-hearted -- or just forget about him and chalk him up as "the man who got away? When a man leaves a relationship, and the woman wonders where she went wrong, and tries desperately to get him back, that's actually a common pattern I've seen all too often in man-woman relationships.
He asked another question and I again gave him a very short reply. Part of me is wondering if that was his attempt to hang out with me again and if he was testing the waters with a text message?
I gave him very uninterested answers which he caught onto quickly.
And from my years of working with hundreds of clients.. Because it's not fair to give you a percentage chance. You'll have a better chance versus if you just "wing it" and hope for the best. Now, I don't know how you feel today, but it's possible you are in a highly charged emotional state. That is, to make contact on her own free will, which let me tell you can be a positive sign. it is crucial that her decision to make contact with you is indeed HER own decision. That is, your ex girlfriend already knows your good and bad points.
What I DO KNOW however is this simple truth: If you play it right, and if you're smart? Now, while you're not contacting or "just happening to be in same places as her," you should also avoid asking her friends or family "how is she doing? And you not want that (for reasons best left to another article.) Sometimes, and when done correctly, the above advice alone may well compel your ex girlfriend to make the first move. That is, if your ex girlfriend starts dating other men, your chance of success diminishes.. I might as well address this now: See, while it's not ideal, you can still achieve your goal when she is dating someone else. But I like to remind the recently single of the "better the devil you know" factor.
It can be a lot more fun that dealing with the misery of a recently broken heart.