As a wise woman once pointed out, "Men have two speeds: on and off." Women are experience-oriented.
When a man is able to switch gears and become more experience-oriented, he will discover what makes his wife very happy.
Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people? Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he's going to do? This is most apparent in Judaism's approach to intimacy.
How does s/he treat people s/he doesn't have to be nice to? The Torah obligates the husband to meet the intimate needs of his wife. Men are goal-oriented, especially when it comes this area.
The persistent belief is that women are looking for long-term committed relationship and men are looking for short-term sexual relationships.
That may be true for younger people, but that isn’t always the case at this age, she says.
what if your say 38 an 45..amount of years..don't even say that back then it was different cus it wasn't...people veiw the same ways..doesn't have an age limit..i fell inlove when i was 12 years old. and honestly, if she wanted it, then its not really illegal. look i no whos askin....i done told you....i don't think its wrong if its love.
what if your say 38 an 45..amount of years..don't even say that back then it was different cus it wasn't...people veiw the same ways..doesn't have an age limit..i fell inlove when i was 12 years old. and honestly, if she wanted it, then its not really illegal. I can tell you from experience that who you think you love when you're just 15 or 16 will not turn out to be the right one for the rest of your life.
Here’s what’s happened in the past year — two girlfriends have gotten engaged, and one has her condo on the market and is looking with her boyfriend to buy a new place and move in together. So, because of that and the fact that we live longer, she says, it’s worth putting the time and energy into looking for love regardless of your age.
They are all 50-something, empty-nesters and divorced. The difference between men and women at this age, however, is that we don’t necessarily want the same things.
Because men have shorter lifespans, many older men are interested in having a potential caregiver or a “nurse with a purse.” They tend to marry quicker than older women, but it isn’t because older women can’t find a hubby; it’s because women are more likely to be looking for a short-term relationship or a companion, not a husband.